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My parents knew him and his parents very well. What is real for you is what matters, then getting help with symptoms. Im scared to tell anyone including my husband that i was molested as a child. Including OCD, PTSD, Depression, and so much more, but what I found strange, was my extreme disgust of the thought of sex. Jess, this is more common than you think. We want to say that we are really glad to hear you found someone to talk to and saw a psychologist. We have to process our feelings around the experience and its best done with support. And i only remembered it when she told me about what happened between them. In the USA, sadly, doctors just put people on medication and leave them to it, which is very hard for us to hear about, as we know that a good therapist can create a safe space for those who have experienced abuse to process their hurt, pain and rage, rebuild their self-esteem, and learn to trust again all things medication alone can not provide. I have always felt that I was probably sexually abused. Nothing inside the house or in the neighborhood changed, but it was as if my neighborhood, instead of running South to North was running from East to West. You can find an article on how to talk to your parents about mental health here http://bit.ly/talktoparents.Also know you can call helplines and talk to really nice people, there are many just for teens, here is the list of helplines in the UK (if you are not in the UK google for one in your country) http://bit.ly/mentalhelplines. We dont talk about any of the hard times we have. As we say in all the other comments, which you might want to read through, unless someone designed a foolproof time machine, there is no way to know what happened. I am taking my children to a friends birthday party tomorrow and it made me realize I cannot remember any detail of even one childhood birthday party on mine. She asked me, but I said no because I couldnt remember anything (I was about 10 years old and had tried to run away from home, it was because I was going into another school and it was a really bad one and I was afraid to go, as I hated school- I was always very quiet and shy). Or am I just thinking it over too much. He was a drunk who verbally abused me for years and of course, the bullying at school ensued. As for feeling guilty if people are more needy than you, thats a sign of a healthy person. Does your country have any free hotlines you can call or support groups you can join? This would fall under neglect and mental/emotional abuse. His twin brother was my older brothers best friend and our mothers were very close so naturally I was around at their house a lot. We cant say why your mother has a strained relationship with you as families and our lives are much more complex than we can share over internet comments, and it might take quite some time in therapy to understand what has happened to leave you or your mother with a complicated relationship.
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